Monday, October 27, 2008

journal queston #2

in china, people usually get know each other in the same environment such as study in the school or work in the company, they also introduce their friends to other friends who match each other, and another way is to date people on the interest. i don't think the last way is a good way to make people fall in love because you can't see their face and you don't know their personality. i think interest mess something up, but it is not interest's fault. people do something inmoral, people chat online instead of meeting friends and family, it makes their relationship pretty far from tight. so i think when you are into someone, you should talk to her face to face, tell her your feeling. that is sincere. sincere is very important, don't lie to them who you love. there is a little difference between china and foreign countries especially the U.S and france i would say. chinese people will get know each other in a pretty long time, if they think they match they will make sure thier relationship. however, american and french want to know their feeling or reaction right away, they are fall in love in a short time. that is what i think, and both are good.

1 comment:

Anna said...

That is a very interesting observation about that US and France. I understand that we do "fall in love quickly" and we tend to do it with our emotions. I think that is why there are such problems here. Emotions are good but they shouldn't rule our lives.